Kevin Hart is getting more flack for his seemingly homophobic ways during a recent episode of ‘The Shop‘–a series produced by HBO in collaboration with LeBron James and Maverick Carter — which features a round-table-like discussion centered in a “barbershop.”
The round-table features celebrities, on-air personalities, musicians, and athletes as they sit and chop it up about hot topics, debate pop culture, sports, music, and address “man stuff” much like in a real black barbershop.
Lil Nas X and Hart were joined on the show’s September 3 episode by basketball players Kevin Love and CJ McCollum, football player Rob Gronkowski, and Charlamagne Tha God. While the interaction between Kevin and Lil Nas X was a very brief part of the 30-minute episode, but it has become a main focus of the entire episode and fired up social media.
In the clip, Lil Nas X was questioned by the group of older black men on why he felt the need to come out of the closet, and publicly earlier this year. It was their responses (or lack of understanding) to his responses that has social media, fans of Nas X, and members of the LGBTQ community furious.
“He said he was gay! So what?” Hart interrupted.
Lil Nas X continued by saying he came out because it was important for him to combat anti-gay sentiment in society.
“I’m growing up to hate this shit,” Lil Nas X said, referring to being gay.
Hart interrupted him again, with a high-pitch squeal and a puzzled look: “Hate what? Why?”
“If you’re really from the hood, you know,” Lil Nas X said to Hart, implying that Hart should know about homophobia and anti-LGBTQ sentiments in the black community.
“Any other time, like, I’m doing this for attention in my eyes,” he continued. “But if you’re doing this while you’re at the top, you know it’s, like, for real. It’s showing, like, it doesn’t really matter.”
You may recall, Hart was famously picked to host the 2019 Oscars and then quit amid intense backlash after he initially refused to apologize for homophobic jokes and comments he’d made in the past that had once again come to light. Specifically, that if his son came out as gay or caught him playing with dolls, he would break a dollhouse on his head…seemingly saying he’d beat the gay out of his son.
Hart defended his decision to not apologize by saying he’d already apologized for them and “changed his ways.” Though he eventually said he was sorry for any hurt he’d caused, he did so only after repeatedly referring to those who were upset about his comments as trolls and haters.
As it relates to the episode of ‘The Shop’, although Hart went on to say that being gay shouldn’t be an issue in 2019 and seemingly implied support—it was how he (and the other men on the panel) dismissed the rap-singers feelings and points, and failed to give him a real space to be vulnerable and feel accepted.
“What I wanna say to Lil Nas X is that in no way shape or form should you have to defend [yourself] … when you have a voice and simply say ‘this’ [being gay,] there is no back-and-forth about what ‘this’ is. Nothing else needs to be said,” Hart says.
The men also failed to truthfully acknowledge anti-LGBTQ sentiments in their personal lives, why coming out and representation is important and necessary, and failed to applaud Nas X for the courage it takes for LGBTQ celebrities, athletes (or men in general) to come out (which is why so few have).
Get into just some of the social media feedback below.
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If you are gonna use your show to gaslight members of the gay community by letting them be questioned by homophobes then please don’t act like you are an upstanding member of the black male community @KingJames. You got too much access to act like you don’t fucking know better
— Girl, fuck Kevin Hart. (@TheSuburbanThug) September 4, 2019
The gaslighting and lack of care in that Lil Nas x clip is maddening. I have low hopes for the rest of it.
Watching folks who joke and bash queer people finally come face to face with one and “what do you mean” him about his fears of coming out is trash.
.— George M Johnson (@IamGMJohnson)
Lil Nas X should not have been put in that situation with those dusty ugly assholes. Y’all had him on this to question why he came out? And then to gaslight him and to pretend like being gay is accepted? Tf is wrong with y’all
— Hoe-se of House Targaryen ???? (@_AvatarFiguero) September 4, 2019
“>September 4, 2019
“He said he was gay. So what!” Kevin Hart knows exactly what the “so what” is here and why a young black boy would closet his sexuality until he believed it was safe. Why not simply listen, give @LilNasX the space and deference to tell his own story… https://t.co/8nY9cHPftP
— G O L D I E. (@goldietaylor) September 4, 2019
Kevin Hart’s reaction to Lil Nas X reminds me of what I see from the men in my own family and it’s disturbing. And when you try to call them on it they shut down and try to gaslight you.
— Janelle Belgrave L.Ac (@JSoAbove) September 4, 2019
I wanted to tweet a long thread about how much this upset me but I have other things to do.
Instead I’ll just say everyone in this room who left Lil Nas X to explain this himself as if he were making it all up is a fucking coward. All of their names should be noted. Period. https://t.co/LMHoa1mGYl
— must be the season of the witch (@MikelleStreet) September 4, 2019
Kevin Hart acting like he doesn’t know why Lil Nas X would be scared to come out is like someone who stole the thing you lost helping you look for it. https://t.co/ZmfRNMktel
— Phillip Henry (@MajorPhilebrity) September 4, 2019
lil nas x showed admirable resolve there — that he shouldn’t have had to, it should be said — but what i really liked was how he took the steam out of kevin hart with that “if you were really from the hood, you would know.”
— Joel D. Anderson (@byjoelanderson) September 4, 2019</b
Lil Nas X was 12 years old when Kevin Hart said he would break a dollhouse over his son’s head if he caught him playing with it because it’s gay https://t.co/rdVguP0q5n
— bonch boy bonK? (@dumbbonch) September 4, 2019
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kevin hart’s homophobia isn’t innocuous. that he remains in good standing with so many powerful people is telling about what people are willing to accept — and it’s a signal to the LGBTQ community. so in that way, it was great that lil nas x effortlessly dismissed his stupid ass
— Joel D. Anderson (@byjoelanderson) September 4, 2019
Kevin Hart: “I’d hit my son if he was gay haha”
Lil Nas X: “there was some homophobia growing up”
Kevin Hart: “WHERE??? FROM WHO???”
— Hayden (@ActuallynHayden) September 4, 2019
LMAOOOOOOOO at Kevin Hart acting confused and fixing his dumb ass mouth to ask Lil Nas X why he would have homophobic thoughts as a kid.
Uhhhhh, I dont know, maybe cuz SOME people make jokes about beating up their gay children?? FOH#TheShopHBO— Amir Talai (@AmirTalai) September 4, 2019
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